Minions on the rise

It’s that time. Where I see granniebabies on Skype. We are in for some lousy photographs, but hey, it’s not about technicality, it’s about emotions and memories. So I will gladly take the bad photographs over anything else in my world.

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When my computer makes the known Skype sound I jump forward to discover one minion. Mia and her mom trickle into my living room. Mia asks to talk to Other Oma, and that warms my heart. I am happy that her mom takes the time out to Skype, so we can have an update on what is going on in their lives.

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Soon enough Minion 2 arrives in my viewing area, the excitement steps up a notch. Two minions have a lot to tell me, all I have to do is sit and listen.

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They must be melting in their minion suits. It’s a full dress up thing, the last days of the summer holidays in Belgium. Next week Nona will go to the “big” school, where she will learn to read and write. Hard to believe that she will be six next month!

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And classical for her age, she lost a tooth. Another one is wiggling. Classical to have communion or spring fest photographs with teeth missing. I have no idea if the Tooth Fairy is in the picture in Belgian life.

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My heart flutters when I think of how much I miss of their lives, being a grannie abroad does not get easier. At least we do have our chats on Skype, and an itty bitty of catch up.

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The last screen dump is fairly representative of the girls. They laugh a lot and are happy happy happy. When they are happy I am. So simple. To end this post I am adding a flashback… 40 years ago!

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More blogging on the way. Had a friend over for a visit and we were on a sightseeing mission! Soon!


Chopin’s Andante Spianato and Grande Polonaise, Op. 22 in E-Flat

Is the best music to listen to for a couple of minutes in the middle of the desert. It was on my bucket list. Listen to Chopin under the stars. And it happened last Friday. Four humans, Wayne, Mr Wonderful, Jim Rogers and me slipped away from town to the West Mesa. Just outside of Las Cruces. I had one goal: photograph the Milky Way.



Wayne Suggs, Las Cruces based builder/photographer took us on an outing, and I was eager to learn. Mr Wonderful came along to kill dragons should there have been dragons. No dragons, but other strange creatures, beetles and snakes. To be taken seriously. Wayne had a couple of chaps in the car that I could borrow.


Made me look like a true American South West woman I thought, but then who asks for my opinion. I did feel a little safer and only screamed a couple of times at the sight of yet another millipede. A finger thick and 5 cm long, sort of a black Mr Michelin guy, too gross to even take a photograph of it.


Wayne is a pro, has been shooting the desert from the moment he got out of his crib at four months old, so he definitely knows what he is doing. A compass to check out the heavens and some parameters. I used my good old iPhone with SkySafari, an app to find the Milky Way. Strange, without Steve Jobs I might never have found it. Between Steve Jobs and Wayne Suggs I had it covered!


We arrived at the golden hour, when the sun was slowly sinking towards the horizon. Time to set up gear, find a spot without millipedes, in the surroundings of the car. Jim seemed to know the desert pretty good also, I was in good company.


I wanted to have an escape route in case bugs became too overwhelming. The spot near the Carrolito mountains was littered with sunflowers, smaller then in Europe, but as pretty.

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I used both iPhone and camera to snap, still testing out how far the phone can go when nature is a bit iffy. Between light an dark, Entre Chien et Loup (between dog and wolf) as the French say, is a good time to experiment. We were in time for a marvellous sunset, with the light slowly but steadily vanishing behind the far horizon.


Between sunset and total darkness was the time to have dinner, we brought sandwiches and water, lots of water. At nine in the evening the temps were still over 90 degrees. In Belgian speak over 30 degrees. Mr Wonderful took a couple of working shots of me, and no wonder I look totally overheated, because I was.


What a special experience it was. Who would ever have guessed that I would be galavanting in a dark desert infested with creepy crawlies on a summer’s night. All set up to grab shots from the skies and in particular the Milky Way. That cluster of stars and nebula telling us that an universe is out there. And how small humans in fact are.


Tripod and camera were in stand by, all that was left to do was take test shots and make sure settings were to the point. Mumbo jumbo with numbers, aperture, speed, lens, bulb, rather technical, and we all know how my brain works with numbers: it’s not. But with Wayne’s help I could set up my camera to the correct position. Funny enough, Wayne vanished on his own to the spot he scouted out for himself. All we saw from him after that was a little head lamp moving now and then in between the grasses and flowers. I had wondered in advance whether we were all going to end up with the same photographs, but no. Good shooting buddies know to let go and find their own spots.


I felt totally in sync with stars, mountains, flowers. Even a few bats flew by. It became darker and darker, and later and later, waiting for the Milky Way is not over in five minutes. We spend four to five hours in the hidden spot at the foot of the mountains. Finally for the first time in my life did I see the sight that I had marvelled over since being a kid. I spotted the milky way and photographed it. The sky is the limit, now I need to learn how to not be afraid in the dark. So I don’t have to rely on other people to go treck. To be honest, I don’t see myself going out by myself at night to marvel at constellations and clouds. Too scary. Without further delay: here is my Milky Way shot. Thanks Wayne, Jim and Mr Wonderful for taking me on this trip. I enjoyed every second of it. Thanks!


That was my Christmas in August! On to more and better nightshots…